tar: quote member names consistently in listings

[SichenLiang]

Use one byte-oriented writer for member names in both plain and verbose listings. It preserves spaces, quotes backslashes and common control characters with C escapes, and uses three-digit octal escapes for other control or invalid bytes.

Locale selection follows LC_ALL, LC_CTYPE, then LANG, ignoring empty values. In C, POSIX, or when all three are unset or empty, every non-ASCII byte is quoted. Other locale names use UTF-8 rules. Windows keeps ordinary Unicode text and quotes controls, backslashes, U+2028, and U+2029.

This is local rather than using uucore::quoting_style because that helper escapes spaces, which tar listings must preserve. Enabling it would also add the ICU locale data dependency. The code can move to uucore later if the shared helper gains the behavior tar needs.

Non-UTF-8 locales and some Unicode printability cases remain outside this change. #277 will need porting; the current #376 changes merge textually, and the merged result builds and passes the Linux tests.

Fixes #383

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 86.05769% with 29 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 96.51%. Comparing base (791ae26) to head (ed1e1e2).
⚠️ Report is 72 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
tests/by-util/test_tar.rs	65.85%	28 Missing ⚠️
src/uu/tar/src/operations/list.rs	98.82%	1 Missing ⚠️

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Merging this PR will not alter performance

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