docs: design for Frame Spec v0.3, a shared Frame model for Nebari Frames and Collab - #83

Node.js 20 is deprecated. The following actions target Node.js 20 but are being forced to run on Node.js 24: thollander/actions-comment-pull-request@v3. For more information see: https://github.blog/changelog/2025-09-19-deprecation-of-node-20-on-github-actions-runners/