Increase Node version support in next major (v11) to v20

[timfish]

Description

For v11 we probably want to bump our minimum support Node version.

• We want to use @apm-js-collab/tracing-hooks to inject code into dependencies but it uses TracingChannel which requires Node >= v19.9.0 or v18.19.0
• We could potentially only ship ESM code if we only support Node versions that support require(esm) which requires Node >= 22.12.0 or 20.19.0

[linear]

JS-920 Increase Node version support in next major