docs: link the project website from the README intro (#855)

* docs: link the project website from the README intro

* docs: add the changeset the repo requires

* docs: modernize the README

Add a table of contents, fix the NIP checklist to match
package.json's supportedNips (adds NIP-42/43/50/77, marks NIP-26 as
removed upstream, drops the duplicate NIP-44), reorder the major
sections into a start-first flow (quick starts before the payments
guide, standalone next to Docker, troubleshooting near the end), fix
the stale ./scripts reference in the NWC step (the wrapper scripts
are gone), and normalize the indented code fences to plain ones.
No factual content changed: URLs, environment variable names and
command invocations are byte-identical to the previous version.

* docs: drop the changeset — a README change does not release the website

* docs: add an empty changeset — docs-only change, no release

Author: chappie-daemon

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